Toxic Relationships: 10 Signs You Are Becoming the Toxic One
Although we don't always want to admit it, sometimes when a relationship is sour, it's because we're the problem. Here are 10 signs that you are becoming the toxic one in your relationships!
By: Jamila Gomez
No relationship is perfect. Perfection in any aspect is not a real thing anyway. But I can guarantee that every relationship you’ve ever been in – whether it’s romantic family, platonic, or working – has endured some sort of strain at some point. Although we don't always want to admit it, much less are able to recognize it, sometimes when relationship is sour, it's because we're the problem. Or at least half of the problem. Don’t believe me? Here are 10 signs that you are becoming the toxic one in your relationships. See if you recognize yourself in any of it.
1) Lack of Responsibility
You don't take responsibility for your part in things falling apart or going wrong. You always blame others or you always choose to remain in situations that allow you to avoid accountability.
2) You Always Have to be Right
You only choose to talk to people who agree with you. You never admit your mistakes or when you are wrong about something. Remember, it’s alright to adjust your thoughts and opinions when presented with no (to you) information. But you need to be open to understanding that you ain’t always got the answers. Nobody likes a know-it-all.
3) You Harbor Resentment
You can't/won't let things go. Either resolve the issues or learn to let it go.
4) You're a Control Freak
It has to be your way or no way. You always have to be at the center of everything. Or you always have to take the reins in any given situation so that it will go your way.
5) You Lack Communication Skills
No one is a mind-reader and you can't expect people to know how you feel if you purposely say nothing. And when you choose to stay silent and not having your needs met, you don’t have the right to be upset with the other person. Closed mouths don’t get fed.
6) You Can't Be Trusted
You are sneaky and dishonest. Going behind someone’s back and doing things you know would hurt them is very toxic. And you can’t use the excuse of “I didn’t tell you because I didn’t want to hurt you” when you get caught in the act. If you don’t want to hurt someone, don’t do the thing that you’d feel the need to be dishonest about later on in the first place.
7) You're Always in Competition With Others
You're obsessed with one-upping or being better than others rather than just being the best version of you that you can be. Or you constantly compare yourself to others you think are doing better than you. The grass is always greener on the other side – until you see the other side. Then you realize your lawn was fine.
8) You Become Unwell
You neglect your mental and physical health. When you don’t take care of yourself, you become no good for other people. Sometimes this is unintentional, and an underlying issue may be at the helm. But if you’re purposely letting yourself go, it can hurt the relationships you’ve built.
9) Your Relationships Are One-Sided
You're always taking/receiving but never at least offering to give/do (when you know you're able). It’s one thing to genuinely need help, but if you’re constantly taking just to take, you’re toxic.
10) You're Emotionally Manipulative
You make people feel guilty for not being your perception of perfection. No one is obligated to live up to your expectation, especially when you don’t even do it.
I hope that helps.
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When the Bond Breaks: When It’s Time to End a Friendship and How to Do It
Ending friendships is never easy, but some relationships must end in order for us to grow and mature! Here are some tips for recognizing when it’s time to end a friendship and how to do it respectfully!
By: Jamila Gomez
I’ve never been that great at building and maintaining friendships. Growing up, I was a loner. My experiences with Spina Bifida and the different ways the defect showed up in my life in the wrong places at the wrong times often left me feeling like I would never get to the place where I could ever harness real connections because I felt so abnormal.
There are a few people that I have known since childhood who have stuck with me all this time and we’re all pushing 40. And even recently, I have been able to make a few connections that stuck. At least, they stuck for a while.
As I’ve gotten older, my personal definition of friendship has taken on a deeper meaning than it used to. Before, I simply wanted to be around people I had things in common with that I could go out and have fun with. Then I grew more introverted than I am now and it just became a desire for people I had things in common with. Overtime, I began to notice that the adhesive on these bonds was not as strong as I thought it was and these bonds began to break.
The severing would start to take place when real-life situations began to show up in our lives. One friend would begin a new romantic relationship and I was pushed to the side. But when she was bored or her relationships ended, she then had time. But then there would be times when I would feel a little down for whatever reason and just needed someone to talk to but ended up having to deal with it by myself.
Then there is the friend of a different race with whom we can bond over music but can’t talk about the racial divide and what we can do together to try and stop it. It can feel really lonely when you feel like you are the only one among your people who truly cares and I have found myself in this lonely place with her on many occasions.
Things like this may sound trivial, but to me, they were red flags. I needed more out of my friendships than just someone I can go to lunch with or talk about music with. I needed friends I could do life with. Ones I could at least talk about life with. Sure, we can hang out and go places and have fun. That’s part of it. But I needed more than just lunch.
I needed friend with whom I could travel the world with. Friends I could celebrate milestones with. Big events. Triumphs. But also those who’d hold each other down when things get rough. Friends who live by “check on your strong friends”. When I realized what I needed was not what I actually had, it was time to make some changes.
Ending friendships is never easy, especially when it wasn’t easy to obtain them to begin with. It takes quite a bit of introspection and being honest with yourself and what you know you need. And not just what you need, but also what you have to give. Friendships are reciprocal and the friend shouldn’t be the only person doing the giving. You have to give also. But it is important that don’t deprive yourself of the things you need from a friendship. And if you know you’re not being fed the way you would like, perhaps it’s time to reevaluate.
Another thing to be mindful of regarding whether or not a friendship needs to end is if the bond feels stagnant. As we grow as individuals, the friendships we have should evolve and mature as well. If you both are growing but the friendship isn’t, it’s a sign that you are growing in different directions. And it’s okay. Your life isn’t over just because a friendship is. It just means that, that chapter in your life is done and it’s time to start a new one.
The way one goes about ending a friendship is really up to that person. While it’s not the most respectful thing to ghost the person, some may find it better to avoid confrontation, arguments, and mind-changing. Otherwise, perhaps you may want to sit down with the friend to get the concerns off your chest. No need to go into grave detail, but if you need to give a brief telling of why you need to cut ties, at least the other person can have that closure.
Take as much responsibility and accountability as you can. Avoid placing blame on the other person unless they have offended you. If that is the case, let them know of the offense, but still be responsible for your own feelings.
When all is said and done, both of you will need time. It’s okay to mourn and grieve over the end. Make sure you take care of your feelings and emotions during the grieving process. But allow yourself to feel what you need to feel. Chances are it’s going to hurt. Let it hurt, but then let it heal. Remember that you can always build new bonds with new people.
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Moving Forward | It's Time To Grow And Let Go
They say that you can literally feel when you are moving into the next chapter of your life---when you are growing. It’s to move in alignment with what makes you happy and uplifts you!
By: Sydni Hatley
They say that you can literally feel when you are moving into the next chapter of your life---when you are growing. We all love the idea of growth, evolving, and becoming the best version of ourselves, but sometimes growth is hard because it means letting go of certain people, habits, and mentalities that we’ve grown comfortable with but that no longer serve us.
It is called growth because you are moving into the next phase of your life, and not everybody and everything can come with you. Thus enters the concept of “growing pains”, because the process of letting go of the familiar can hurt, but once it is said and done, and you are on the other side, the fruits of that labor will always be worth the release.
When you know it is time to let go of something, (a relationship, a friendship, a job, a certain lifestyle, etc.), everything in your life will seemingly start to point it out. The signs will be everywhere. The concept of severing ties with things that no longer serve where you are going will become apparent, making themselves clearer and clearer each time you avoid this truth.
The purpose of our existence in this life is literally to evolve in mind, body, and spirit. We cannot grow in physicality but remain stuck in the same circumstances that hold our minds and spirits back from maturing as well. Growing pains themselves (which are the actual process of letting go) are a trial to see if you are ready to take the next steps necessary to achieving personal freedom and happiness---but no one can take those steps but you.
A lot of times when it comes to the need to outgrow toxic situations of any kind, there will be many tests to hold you back. For instance, if it is a toxic relationship with a boyfriend or girlfriend, they may see you starting to outgrow them and try to trap or manipulate you into staying. If it is a toxic friend, they may do the same. DO NOT stay out of fear of being alone, or anything else.
Growth and maturation is about strengthening the mind and aligning the mind with your own discernment. Seeing a situation that no longer serves you is the first part, acting on that situation for the betterment of your life is another. You must remain steadfast in your purpose, and trust that you are going further without them than with them.
We always see testimonies about how healthy people are once they began prioritizing their own life and happiness, and we as people long to have that ourselves. The reality is, it takes a lot of work to even get to that space of inner peace and true tranquility. You must identify the things that uplift you vs. drag you down, and that process can be simple if you let it be. Accepting them is the second hardest thing to do. Moving on from them is the first.
The key is to focus on yourself, focus on your journey and how YOU’RE feeling. Try to move in alignment with what makes you happy and uplifts you. Remove anything and anyone from your life that does not. The best thing you can do when it’s time to close a chapter of your life is honor your intuition, know your worth, focus on where you want to go, and don’t look back at the things or people that you know won’t get you there.
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Gray Expectations: 4 Tips For Navigating Through The Talking Stage
Going through the talking stage will require understanding, accepting, and embracing the idea that you have absolutely no control over anyone! Here are 4 tips to help you navigate through the talking stage!
By: Kathleen Santos
Who else can relate? It’s a match! Attraction was immediate based on each other's profile pics - so we swiped right. Or maybe we matched because we share a similar ideal and agree that people who find it fascinating to debate about ‘pineapples on pizza’ are corny. Maybe we’ve known each other from work, and one of us has only recently become single after being previously attached.
Regardless of how it happens, the connection leads to more dialogue, an exchange of compliments and lots of flirtatious small talk. Eventually, we link up, chemistry is dope, and at this point, no one is giving off any creepy or psycho vibes. And so, our arduous dating journey begins.
Establishing a connection with someone you’re attracted to in-person may be more difficult to maneuver for some, but it’s not impossible as long as you’re being yourself. And with 24/7 access to potentials via dating apps and social media, shootin’ your shot is even easier since it requires little effort, just some audacity!
With billions of people on this planet, the odds on a good set of options, are in our favor. Whether you’re dating with intention or just looking to add to the roster, we can all agree that this part of the process should be pretty easy. If you don’t think so, then you’re not ready to be out here just yet. Take your time and try again later.
The next phase of the dating journey, however, could get more awkward and problematic. At the beginning, we are likely playing it real cool. We’ve probably agreed that we’re in this to get to know each other, have fun, and of course, “We’ll see where it goes...” No pressure. Before we know it, we’re spending more time, we’ve got the bedroom mixtapes on replay, and we’re really vibin’. Inevitably, someone catches feelings. Now what? Welp… We have now entered into an area of uncertainty or a space of gray expectations.
To be clear, this concept is most relevant when we’ve been hanging out for at least a couple of months, give or take a month. We’re still single, we see each other regularly, but we’ve not talked about being exclusive, so there aren’t any titles. But could we be headed in that direction? Our relationship status is unclear just as our expectations might be. Should we be planning to see each other regularly every week? How often? What are the rules around daily calls and texts? What do I tell my friends or family who are curious about you? What about my roster? Am I supposed to be giving it up? If I do, you definitely need to give up yours. Is this even the time to have this conversation to define this relationship? What are we doing?? What are we??? Ugggghhhh…
Managing the noise and our own well-being can be tricky when we are dating in a hookup culture that breeds anxiety, ambiguities, and situationships. Those looking for answers to these questions of who/what/where/how/why, might turn to Youtube or IG relationship gurus, dating coaches, and/or their friends who all have opinions and experiences to share about ‘what men/women really want’ or ‘how to get him/her to commit’. Save yourself some valuable time in analysis paralysis and leave all that alone. If you do find yourself tumbling down this vast rabbit hole though and getting yourself stressed… please read on.
Being able to effectively navigate through this gray area will require understanding, accepting, and embracing the idea that you have absolutely no control over anyone, but you! So, to help you get through to the other side, keep the following in mind:
1. CoMmunicate, Communicate, Communicate
Suck it up, and talk it out. Be open and ensure that the two of you are on the same page about what you’re doing, so that you can move accordingly.
2. Require Respect and Healthy Boundaries
If the timing isn’t right to commit and slap a title on the relationship, but you decide to keep hanging out, then so be it. Understand, accept, and embrace this decision with no other expectations. It will be important to continue to require respect and healthy boundaries, whether or not there is a commitment, so leave no room for misunderstanding there.
3. Keep The Focus On You!
If the person you want isn’t in a position to reciprocate, you need to STOP expending more energy and just match theirs. Be committed to getting yourself ready for the right one who will be decisive and equipped to respond correctly. In the meantime, keep your roster. Get your mind, body, soul and bag right! Stay productive, booked, and busy!
4. Appreciate The Now
Maintaining a grateful mindset opens the door to more opportunities and results in benefits that include enhanced physical, emotional and mental health. So, be intentional about taking in the sights, sounds, and smells every day. Be aware of your feelings during the highs and lows, be present in all of it. Be thankful for the wins and lessons. No one needs to be worried about yesterday, it’s long gone. And, while we can keep an eye on the future, we don’t live there. Let’s normalize and cherish being grateful and fully present.
Case in point, Miss Lori Harvey. While some may find her lifestyle choices controversial, Twitter has very recently reminded us that she might be able to teach us a few things. I mean, she is ‘Act Like a Lady and Think Like a Man’ personified (no doubt thanks to the Coach himself, Uncle Steve Harvey), so we should consider taking notes.
Lots of people out here are happy to judge her for what she does or doesn’t do, how she lives her life, or her choices in men, but I can’t hate! At this point in her life, Lori is doing what she is supposed to be doing. She’s single, taking care of herself, living her life unapologetically, minding her business, doing what she wants and whoever she wants. Can’t be mad at that. What’s even more impressive? While she’s open to sharing, she’s not saying a damn thing more than she needs to about what she’s doing nor is she getting caught up in foolish gossip! And most importantly, she is not letting any man stress her!
In the meantime, Lori is continuing to mind her own and letting us in on who is putting a smile on her face (for now) as she pleases. And by the looks of Michael B. Jordan’s grin these days, he is loving being posted up.
Bottomline: When you're having to navigate through a situationship with gray expectations, remember that it has less to do with the other person and more to do with ourselves. Your time is not frivolous. Let them know it’s earned. Keep the focus on your preparation, so when your level-up comes around, you are ready!
Lori Harvey and Michael B. Jordan
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Zodiac Compatibility | Learning Your Love Compatibility Through Astrology
There are many different astrological aspects that influence who we are and how we operate in relationships. Learning your natal chart and the astrological aspects of your character will help you better understand yourself and your compatibility in love.
By: Sydni Hatley
Many people base friendships, relationships, and their general understanding of others off of the zodiac sign assigned to them at birth (the proper term for this is “Sun sign”). The Sun sign is in fact the most common thing people associate themselves with when it comes to astrology, but what people don’t realize is that just like we have many different qualities that determine who we are, there are many different astrological aspects that influence who we are as well.
One example of how much this makes a difference in our lives is in the area of love. A lot of times when people first meet and gage their compatibility with a potential partner, they are basing this compatibility solely on their sun signs (which describes their basic nature and personality traits), instead of equally looking at their venus sign (how they typically operate when in love and relationships), as well as their Moon sign (how they express and deal with their innermost emotions).
The Sun, Moon, and Venus signs are only three of eleven signs that make up the entire birth chart of a person. It is important, as one continues to learn about astrology, that they understand how each planet is responsible for a different part of their character. Also, depending on the sign linked to that respective planet, it will determine how one acts in that area.
As it pertains to love, the more important planets that will help determine compatibility are in fact the Sun, Moon, and Venus signs. The Sun sign is important as it pertains to love because it determines the core qualities that make you, you. For instance, if you are a Scorpio, are you typically very honest, loyal, or a private person? If you are an Aries, are you typically fiery? A leader? These are aspects to your character that are at the core of your being, and remain the most constant.
The Moon sign is important too as it pertains to love, because it shows your partner who you are when nobody's watching. It gets rid of any facades and lets your partner know who you are when you’re the most comfortable. For example, if your moon is in Leo you’re typically a lot more emotional than people think, and you may tend to be dramatic.
Finally, the Venus sign is important because it helps determine the type of person you are in relationships. For instance, if your Venus is in Virgo you could say that in relationships you are a bit critical of your partner but devoted, and/or a bit of a perfectionist. Overall, people use the sun sign alone thinking that it is the only indicator of their compatibility with someone, but there is a whole other world of areas important to a relationship that are influenced by astrology.
A final aspect that should be mentioned as it is just as important when it comes to love and relationship compatibility is the planet of Mercury: the planet of communication. Whatever a potential partner’s sign in Mercury is will help determine their style of communication. For example, my friend’s Mercury is in Sagittarius, and they typically communicate in a scattered, fleeting manner. Coincidentally, this is a quality of people who’s Mercury is in Sagittarius. Your communication style matters when thinking about compatibility with your partner as healthy communication is essential for a successful relationship. It is great to have a nice general vibe with someone but if they cannot communicate in relationships it won’t go anywhere.
Learning your natal chart and the astrological aspects of your character will help tremendously in better understanding yourself both in love and in life. You can calculate your natal chart easily by making sure you know your birth date, birth time, and exact birth location (city and state). Once you have these three things, you can unlock a whole new world of understanding, making life so much easier for yourself in the long run. Hopefully this information will make finding the perfect match a lot more fun and exciting!
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Red vs. Green Flags: 18 Green Flags You Should Look For In A Healthy Relationship
Red flags are definitely something to pay attention to in a relationship, but so are green flags! The more green flags your partner exhibits, the greater the chances are for long term potential! Here are 18 Green flags you should look for in a healthy relationship!
By: Kathleen Santos
When you ask someone about what traits they are looking for in a person they are dating, they might be quick to rattle off all the usual surface-level type of qualities, like: They have to be funny, smart, healthy; have to have a stable job, dress nice, and hopefully we like the same basketball or football teams; obviously, they smell good, and are really easy to look at, and bedroom chemistry is on point…Pretty straightforward list.
But, let’s be honest. When it comes down to it, while many of these traits will be important to physical and intellectual chemistry, they may be better described as preferences. They aren’t qualities that are going to be what strengthens a relationship dynamic, so that they can withstand stress or conflict as a couple effectively.
With an enduring relationship in mind, you’d need to do some work and figure out if you all have some depth in compatibility as well, so that you can get that “If I Ain’t Got You” kind of love we heard about from Alicia Keys when we were growing up.
What exactly should we be looking for then? Surprisingly, we may not be as quick to rattle off these requirements. In fact, we might come back expeditiously with red flags ready, “... I’ll tell you what I DON’T want!”... Maybe you’ve shared something to that effect with others before? Yeah, me too.
While the list of red flags are easier to recall, don’t worry, this doesn’t make you or I a pessimist or cynic. We’ve just been conditioned to look for these red flags. Our own testimonies of heartbreak along with witnessing others go through it definitely influences our views on them. And wouldn’t you know it…science has something to say about it too.
According to WebMD, there are quite a few research studies out there that support why we tend to remember the negatives or bad memories more vividly compared to those positive or good memories. The studies suggest that recalling the negatives might be due to an evolutionary response, a sort of survival mechanism. Case in point, if we went on safari in Botswana, we innately know to keep our eyes on that tall grass where the lions or lionesses are hiding ready to snatch their meals. Arms and legs inside the truck during the tour - pretty clear.
Back to red flags…again, while we recognize that we need to pay attention to them, we also need to make sure we are equally focused, if not more so, on green flags. What exactly are green flags anyway? These are personality and behavioral traits that can support a lasting relationship dynamic. Specifically, these traits can help create space for more vulnerability and enable deeper compassion for one another, which is essential as the couple gets to know who they are completely, and for true intimacy to be established. The more green flags your partner exhibits, the greater the chances are for long term potential! Let’s take a look at some notable ones below:
Healthy Green Flags
Knows who they are and what they want… is unapologetically authentic!
Demonstrates and encourages vulnerability
Makes you feel emotionally safe
Capable of consistent, open, and honest communication
An optimist; can easily see the positive in any situation
Aligned to their life’s purpose, personally and/or professionally
Supportive of your aspirations and encourages personal growth
Willing and open to reach a compromise
Listens to understand rather than listening to respond
Practices and prioritizes self-care/ self-love
Is calm and respectful during arguments
Feels responsible and is accountable for their own happiness
Holds you accountable for your own happiness
Admits when they’re wrong and knows when/how to apologize
Understands that there is space for alone time or for friendships outside of the relationship
Doesn’t disrespect you, behind your back or in public
Practical when under pressure and exhibits maturity
Knows your love language(s), so they understand how to love you correctly (see recent article on Understanding the Five Love Languages)
This list is not all inclusive of course, and we need to consider we all have different requirements. So, whether you're single, dating, or committed, I would encourage you to reflect on those green flags that are most important to your relationship dynamic and start building your own checklist. Superficial preferences aside, determining compatibility will require more from us, especially if we’re after what Ms. Alicia is singing about. We’ll be better equipped to be in tune with ourselves and our partner’s authentic self as long as we have the courage to hold each other accountable for identifying and expressing our values and beliefs to one another.
“Some people think / That the physical things define what’s within / And I’ve been there before / That life’s a bore / So full of the superficial / Some people want it all / But I don't want nothing at all. If it ain't you baby" - Alicia Keys
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Understanding The 5 Love Languages: What's Yours?
We all express and receive love differently! Do you know your love language?
By: Kathleen Santos
Have you ever taken the garbage out for your girlfriend without asking and she didn’t thank you? Or maybe you attempted to surprise your husband by door-dashing some lunch, but he complained that it was a waste of money and impersonal. Have you tagged your boyfriend on your IG or Twitter to wish them ‘HAPPY BIRTHDAY!’ and he didn’t bother to like it…just ignored it?
Now, we all know that these types of situations happen all the time and a fight is 99.9% inevitable each time, right? Someone most definitely will end up getting the silent treatment or maybe even yelled at, while the other likely would feel pretty unappreciated or taken for granted.
So, what is the secret sauce to avoiding some of this drama? This might depend on who you ask, but according to author and marriage counselor, Gary Chapman, Ph.D., if we want to be clear about what we want, avoid unnecessary drama, and get our romantic relationships to really flourish, we need to learn how to speak each other's language.
We all express and receive love differently. Even if you’ve just started dating someone special, are in a newly committed relationship, or if you’ve got some good time-in as an established couple, we can all agree that we all have experienced misunderstandings in matters of the heart and in the end, we all just want to be loved and understood. For nearly 30 years, Dr. Chapman has been helping to improve relationships with his very practical approach to understanding the differences in how we communicate love, so that we can understand each other on a deeper level. And bonus! This will likely keep us out of the petty drama too...
Let’s take a look at what he’s described as the Five Love Languages:
Words Of Affirmation
When this is someone’s primary love language, it means they need words of affection, praise, and encouragement. Text them a motivational quote on their way to a job interview, pray with them when they’re going through a rough time or give them a call to let them know they’re on your mind.
What won’t work? Undue criticism, harsh words or a rough tone.
Quality Time
This person’s love language requires your full attention as a way to show your love and affection. Be fully present, focused on them. Cook dinner or do laundry together! Be fully engaged when he talks to you about the importance of voting in local elections.
What won’t work? Checking your phone every few minutes. And don’t wait too long between meetings please.
Physical Touch
For this person who has this as their primary language, love and affection is expressed nonverbally. This could mean spooning in bed, a long hug before you go to work, sitting close to each other while watching some tv, or holding hands from the car to the grocery store.
What won’t work? Simple...physical neglect!
Acts Of Service
When this is someone’s love language, it means they feel loved and appreciated when you do things that they would find helpful or kind, big or small, especially without them asking you! This could mean taking his car to get the oil changed, folding the laundry that’s been sitting in the dryer, or post your favorite picture of her with flames!
What won’t work? Overcommitment, breaking promises.
Receiving Gifts
For this person, it’s not necessarily all about expensive gifts. Love and affection is expressed best if you put some careful thought behind it. While they probably won’t complain about being gifted a luxury brand purse or the latest Samsung Galaxy for their birthday, she’d really appreciate it if you commemorated her recent promotion with her favorite perfume or if you bought him that PS5, just because...
What won’t work? Buying random presents with no meaning. Don’t you dare forget birthdays, anniversaries.
Communication is at the heart of any solid relationship. Feeling like we are being loved as we understand love to be is everything! Putting in the time to understand each other’s love language and adjust how we communicate, not only is going to score you major points with your loved one, but they’ll recognize that you’re reinforcing your commitment to them by prioritizing their needs. The secret sauce is pretty practical advice, there really is no rocket science here. Take the quiz to determine your language!
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